Friday, May 1, 2026

Mourning Alone

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The country hit a grim milestone yesterday, when the U.S. death toll from the coronavirus ticked past the 100,000 mark. Far more Americans have died of this virus than the number who perished in the Vietnam War, the war in Afghanistan, the Iraq war and the Sept. 11 attacks — combined. It’s as if everyone in Albany, N.Y., or Flint, Mich., died over the course of a season.

Beyond their sheer size, what has been most striking about these staggering numbers has been the silence.

America has a long tradition of honoring its fallen. We award Gold Stars and build monuments, we stand for moments of silence and sit at memorial services. These rituals give the country a way to confront tragedy on a grand scale, building a sense of common purpose for the challenges ahead.

But in the face of these deaths, Americans have been left to their trauma. To mourn, alone.

While there has been an outpouring of public gratitude — nightly applause for health workers, food sent to hospitals, masks sewn and shipped across the country — there has been a remarkable lack of public grief.

In part, the silence reflects the nature of this illness. Death happens alone, the last gaze of a loved one often just a tinny image framed by the blue light of a computer screen. Funerals, if they happen, are private. Bodies pile up in crematories, cemeteries and refrigerated trucks.

But moments of national crisis also reveal truths about our leaders.

President Trump has long shirked his role as consoler in chief, preferring to focus on the country’s “transition to greatness” and “incredible” days ahead. After months of deaths, he ordered flags to be lowered at half-staff last week, under pressure from Democratic leaders. But his schedule this week contains no special commemoration of the 100,000 lives lost.

His only comment about the “very sad milestone” came in a tweet this morning, where he offered his “heartfelt sympathy & love for everything that these great people stood for & represent. God be with you!”

While Mr. Trump has the biggest bully pulpit, he doesn’t have the only one. Last night, Joe Biden, the presumptive Democratic nominee, released a video address telling the bereaved that “this nation grieves with you.”

The staging resembled a traditional Oval Office address, meant to contrast the former vice president’s capacity for empathy with the current president’s. “To those hurting, I’m so sorry for your loss,” Mr. Biden said. “Take some solace in the fact that we all grieve with you.”

But it was hard to escape the feeling of smallness that surrounded the whole endeavor: a two-minute video, shot from his home in Delaware, watched on social media. A moment noted by retweets, shares and tiny heart emojis.

After the 9/11 attacks, dozens of members of Congress from both parties stood side by side on the steps of the Capitol, a powerful joint appearance. Many hugged, some cried. Today, a half-empty House chamber observed a moment of silence. Perhaps members shed private tears. No one hugs, anyhow.

Clearly, social distancing complicates the staging of large memorial events. But we live in extraordinary times. Members of Congress cast their first-ever remote votes this week. School districts have distributed iPads, and so many of us have learned to work from our bedrooms. If politicians wanted to mourn, their strategists would find a way. They always do, after all.

Those are questions that many American leaders, particularly in the White House, would prefer to avoid. They’ve chosen silence; we grieve alone.

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Donald Trump was an early adopter of Twitter, joining the platform as @realDonaldTrump in March 2009 and sending out his first tweet that May, hyping his upcoming appearance on “The Late Show.” Six years later he used his popularity on the site to transform himself into the most successful insurgent presidential candidate in modern history. And now, as president, Mr. Trump has turned his Twitter account into a personal, often rageful, font of misinformation.

Many have come to view his aggressive governance by tweet as deeply harmful, even dangerous — including two Opinion writers focused on media and tech, Charlie Warzel and Kara Swisher. Both praised Twitter’s decision this week to label two of Mr. Trump’s false tweets about mail voting as “potentially misleading,” complete with links to articles fact-checking him.

“Twitter pretty much called Mr. Trump a liar and brought the receipts,” Ms. Swisher wrote in her column. “No surprise that the president reacted with his usual rage — on Twitter, of course — accusing the platform on Tuesday of ‘stifling FREE SPEECH.’”

Mr. Warzel asked, “What Would Happen if Twitter Banned Trump?” After listing some hypothetical benefits, he ultimately rules against it: “Banning Mr. Trump from Twitter, just like fact-checking one or two of his lying tweets, might feel good and might make the platform feel less toxic for a while. But it’s still just tinkering on the margins. It won’t fix the deeper structural problems that have created our information apocalypse.”

Figuring out how to solve those structural problems, or even finding broad agreement on what exactly they are, is a debate that is sure to continue.

— Talmon Joseph Smith

Mandy Patinkin’s quarantine is a delight.

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YouTuber Gave Up Adopted Chinese Son With Autism After Monetizing Him Online

A popular parenting YouTuber has come under fire after permanently placing her autistic son — whom she adopted from China in October 2017 — with another family.

Myka Stauffer, whose YouTube channel has hundreds of thousands of followers, and her husband, James, made the announcement Tuesday in a video titled “an update on our family.”

In the video, the couple say that they have decided to “rehome” their now 4-year-old son Huxley due to unspecified behavioral issues.

“Once Huxley came home, there was a lot more special needs that we weren’t aware of, and that we were not told,” James Stauffer said in the video shared on Tuesday.

“For us, it’s been really hard hearing from the medical professionals, a lot of their feedback, and things that have been upsetting,” he continued. “We’ve never wanted to be in this position. And we’ve been trying to get his needs met and help him out as much as possible … we truly love him.”

“Do I feel like a failure as a mom? Like, 500%,” Myka Stauffer said in the video.

The YouTuber, who has four biological children, has been vocal about how challenging she finds raising an autistic child to be. In an Instagram post from January, she speaks of Huxley’s “melt downs.”

In what appears to be an Instagram story from Stauffer that was captured and shared on Twitter, she seems to shame her son for having a “bad day.”

“And that’s why you don’t see Huxley on the vlog,” she tells the camera. “He’s probably having a meltdown.”

Over the past two years, Stauffer has also made over 20 videos involving Huxley, including multiple videos about her “adoption journey,” updates on how he’s doing, Q&As about adoption, and one video in which she crowdfunds and asks her YouTube followers to help her raise money for the boy.

Huxley was also featured in a July 2018 video titled “5 Things I Didn’t EXPECT About Our China ADOPTION! International ADOPTION,” which was sponsored by Dreft — a hypoallergenic laundry detergent for newborns.

“One thing I did to help our bond was decide to use Dreft baby detergent,” she says in the video. “It was really nice because Dreft baby detergent has this scent just like a newborn, so when I’m cuddling a 3-year-old baby boy I can still feel like I’m snuggling that brand-new baby.”

After explaining that she had difficulty bonding with Huxley and that he “rejected” her, she adds: “I get that baby scent that I never got with my son.”

The same day she posted that video, Stauffer published an Instagram post — also sponsored by Dreft — in which she states that Huxley’s adoption process “had so many bumps along the way” but was also “by far one of my favorite journeys I have ever embarked on!”

“I love everything about this little boy and I wouldn’t trade him for anything!” she says.

Unsurprisingly, Stauffer’s announcement on Tuesday that Huxley was living with a “new mommy” in a “forever home” didn’t sit well with many online.

Julia Bascom, the executive director of the Autistic Self Advocacy Network, told HuffPost in a statement Thursday that this “horrific” story is sadly more common than one would think.

“Children with disabilities are more likely than their nondisabled peers to be subject to abuse, neglect, and abandonment and to end up in child welfare systems, including the adoption system,” Bascom said. “Other international adoptees with disabilities have also been rejected by their adoptive families in this cruel way.”

Bascom noted that no parent gets “to ‘order’ a child to their specifications” and that any expectant parent may end up with a disabled child. “Children with disabilities deserve stable, loving homes with parents who support and accept them, as all children do.”



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Trump Makes Baseless Claim About Children Stealing Vote-By-Mail Ballots

President Donald Trump again railed against states expanding vote-by-mail on Thursday, this time making absurd claims that children “raid” mailboxes and “grab the ballots.” 

Speaking at the White House signing of a new executive order on social media, the president once again went off on mail-in ballots, repeatedly claiming the process is rife with “fraud and abuse” — even though there is no evidence of that. 

“When they send out, like in California, millions and millions of ballots to anybody in California that’s breathing. Anybody that’s breathing gets a ballot,” Trump falsely claimed. 

An executive order signed by Democratic Gov. Gavin Newsom earlier this month requires the state to mail a ballot to every registered voter in California before the Nov. 3 election. As in other states seeking to expand mail-in voting for the 2020 election, the move came amid public health concerns over in-person voting further spreading the coronavirus. 

After a reporter pushed back on the president’s remarks, Trump piled on more fallacies:

“Oh really? So when [Newsom] sends out 28 million ballots in all the mailboxes, and kids go and they raid the mailboxes, and they hand them to people that are signing the ballots down the end of the street, which is happening. They grab the ballots,” Trump said, without evidence. “You don’t think that happens? There’s ballot harvesting.” 

“You don’t think they rip them out of mailboxes? It’s all the time, you read about it, you can read about it. Take a look,” the president added. 

There have been no reports that children stealing ballots out of mailboxes has been a problem for mail-in voting. As for “ballot harvesting,” it’s worth noting that the president himself used the process when he used an intermediary to vote by mail as an absentee in Florida’s March primary. 

The White House didn’t immediately respond to a request for comment.  

This isn’t the first time Trump has gone after California specifically to make false claims about supposed widespread voter fraud. During the 2016 presidential election and again ahead of the 2018 midterm election, Trump claimed that millions of people voted illegally in California — but the president has failed to substantiate these allegations with any evidence, even though he empaneled a national commission in 2017-2018 to investigate his voter fraud claims.

Trump has repeatedly suggested that Republicans would lose out if the electorate were expanded through the use of mail-in ballots, saying on “Fox & Friends” last month that if Democratic proposals on voting went through, “you’d never have a Republican elected in this country again.” 

On Thursday, Trump repeated such remarks: “There’s tremendous controversy on mail-in voting. And I can say this — the Republican Party cannot let it happen.”



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‘Rich Mitch’ Bashed In New Republican Lincoln Project Ad As Kentucky Suffers

The never-Trumper Republican Lincoln Project has set its sights in a scathing new ad on Senate Majority Leader “Rich Mitch” McConnell of Kentucky, contrasting the plush life he’s forged for himself while in office with his state’s poor in various social metrics.

The 60-second spot features several shots of the Republican’s signature cat-who-swallowed-the-canary smile while noting that he’s made tens of millions of dollars since first winning his Senate seat in 1984, when he “didn’t have much money,” says the narrator in a folksy Southern drawl.

McConnell, seeking his seventh term in November, has “spent most of his time making deals for himself — not so much for Kentucky,” the spot says.

Kentucky ranks 40th in job opportunity in the nation, 45th in education, and 43rd in health care, the ad says. “After 35 years, Kentuckians are still waitin’ for the kind of opportunities Mitch worked so hard to give himself,” the narrator concludes.

The political action committee for the Lincoln Project, a group comprised of several prominent GOP figures who adamantly oppose President Donald Trump, intends to spend more than $300,000 this week to run the spot on TV and in digital ads in Kentucky, reports The Louisville Courrier Journal.

McConnell was picked as a Lincoln Project target in part because of his actions to stymy Trump’s impeachment trial stemming from the president’s pressure on Ukraine to launch an investigation into political rival Joe Biden, said attorney and group co-founder George Conway.

“When he fixed the impeachment trial by blocking evidence of Trump’s high crimes and misdemeanors, McConnell violated and abased the solemn oaths he took as a United States Senator,” Conway, who’s married to White House counselor Kellyanne Conway, said in a statement. “Add in the fact that, as our ad shows, he’s managed to do much better for himself than for the people of Kentucky, and it becomes a no-brainer: McConnell has to go.”

McConnell’s campaign dismissed the ad and the Lincoln Project as ineffective. 

“No scam PAC of grifters has ever been less relevant and no group of D.C. consultants will be forgotten faster than these thieves who bet everything on three days of dishonest ads in Kentucky,” the campaign said in a statement.

The ad was trending on Twitter just hours after its release. The Lincoln Project focus on video ads has resulted in major circulation on social media. Its recent “Mourning In America” and “Trump Will Lie” ( people will die) videos about the COVID-19 crisis scored significant traffic.

Trump was so incensed by the “Mourning” video that he tweeted about it, calling the Lincoln Project founders “losers.” That, in turn, brightened the spotlight on the ad.

McConnell, 78, remains favored to win reelection, though he may face a competitive race from the likely Democratic Senate nominee, former Marine combat pilot Amy McGrath, 44. The primary to pick McConnell’s Democratic challenger is scheduled for June 23.

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Whitlam papers to be made public, high court rules

Letters between the Queen and the governor-general who dismissed Gough Whitlam should be released, the High Court has ruled.

The so-called palace letters between Buckingham Palace and Sir John Kerr about the time of the 1975 dismissal had been deemed personal communications by the National Archives of Australia and the Federal Court.

Friday’s judgment follows a legal battle relating to whether letters between the Queen and Sir John Kerr, who dismissed prime minister Gough Whitlam, should be publicly released.
Jenny Hocking with a photo of Gough Whitlam and the Dismissal letter. (AAP)

The so-called palace letters between Buckingham Palace and Sir John about the time of the 1975 dismissal had been deemed personal communications by the National Archives of Australia and the Federal Court.

Her legal team argued that despite being the personal letters of Sir John, they relate to the exercise and function of the governor-general’s power. And, as they are commonwealth property, they should be subject to the same laws that allow cabinet documents to be released after 20 years.

The Federal Court had previously ruled the letters – given to the national archives by Sir John – were personal, meaning they can’t be released until 2027, and only then with the permission of the Queen.

Gough Whitlam speaks to reporters in 1975 following his dismissal by then-Governor-General John Kerr. (Getty)

The 1975 Australian constitutional crisis, also known simply as the Dismissal, has been described as the greatest political crisis in Australian history.

It culminated on 11 November 1975 with the dismissal from office of Whitlam of the Australian Labor Party (ALP), by Kerr, who then commissioned the Leader of the Opposition, Malcolm Fraser of the Liberal Party, as caretaker prime minister.

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North Korea Threatens to Punish Parents and Teachers for Teenage Sex

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Authorities in North Korea say “sexual immorality” among the country’s teenagers is on the rise, warning that the randy teens’ “impure acts” are considered treasonous, and that their teachers and parents could be punished if they are caught.

While high school students engaging in sexual activity with each other is an issue that most countries would say is caused by raging hormones, North Korea says it is due to “decadent capitalist influences,” meaning pornographic materials from Japan and elsewhere, and movies from South Korea and the U.S. The contraband media materials usually enter the country by way of the porous Sino-Korean border and are distributed from person to person using mobile phones or USB flash drives.

The illicit files in some ways are the only accessible resources about sex and relationships for many young North Koreans, who live in a socially conservative country that borders on reactionary, where there is almost no sex education to speak of.

A 2005 report by New Focus International interviewed several North Koreans who had escaped to South Korea who explained that they didn’t learn about sex at school or at home.

One said that at the age of 16, she believed that a woman could become pregnant by simply holding hands with a man and falling asleep. Another said that he and his friends learned about sex from Japanese pornographic videos, which were being widely circulated on video CDs at the time.

Now, just like 15 years ago, teens are learning about sex from pornography, which does little to educate youth about sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancies. But rather than instituting a nationwide sex-ed program in the country’s high schools, North Korea is instead looking to punish not only sexually active teens, but their parents and teachers for improperly educating them.

“Recently more and more high school boys and girls are engaging in immoral sexual deviance, and the Central Committee [of the Korean Workers’ Party] has issued a directive calling for strong measures against them,” a source from North Pyongan province, who requested anonymity to speak freely, told RFA’s Korean Service Wednesday.

“The reason behind this order is that the local Kimilsungist-Kimjongilist Youth League in Sinuiju [a city on the border with China] inspected high school students, and found that some high school boys and girls hang out with local gangsters, live together, and commit immoral acts such as prostitution,” the source said.

The league is the country’s main youth organization, modeled after the Soviet Komsomol.

According to the source, the Central Committee wants to crack down on teen sex to preserve the foundation of society.

“The immoral sexual behavior of students, who are influenced by capitalist lifestyles, has become a problem,” the source said.

“[The committee] defined sexual promiscuity among teenagers as a treasonous act that helps the enemy to destroy our society. And since they are warning of strong punishment, students are shaking with fear,” said the source.

The source said the government identified the cause of the promiscuous behavior, saying it comes from media passed around on mobile devices.

“The Central Committee pointed out that the reason why [sexual promiscuity] is so common in students these days is because they are imbued with decadent capitalist culture, due to the increase in electronic media, including mobile phones,” said the source.

“In order to prevent this, they ordered [schools] to check students for phones or other devices they might have with them,” the source added.

Though smartphone use is allowed in North Korea, the country’s smartphones all have an application called “Red Flag” running in the background that keeps a log of webpages visited by users and randomly takes screenshots. These can be viewed, but not deleted with another app called “Trace Viewer.” The screenshots can be checked by authorities at any time, making surveillance relatively easy.

Schools are now paying more attention to the problem and doing more to report on the deviant behaviors of students by investigating their private lives.

“They are taking measures to control [the teens’] unhealthy sexual activity,” the source said.

“Members of the youth league, as well as school teachers, are calling for various measures including taking charge of troubled students and educating them individually,” the source added.

Another source suggested that the various organizations dealing with the youth should discuss the problem regularly.

“There should be a meeting at least once a month with school principals, party secretaries, and senior members of the Kimilsungist-Kimjongilist Youth League to discuss students’ unhealthy sexual behaviors,” the resident of North Hamgyong province, who requested anonymity for legal reasons, told RFA.

The second source said that there was a sense of alarm among those who run these various organizations.

“Teachers are anxious because of the warning that school principals, advisors to the Kimilsungist-Kimjongilist Youth League and the Korean Children’s Union, and school teachers, will also be punished if there is a serious sexual violation among students,” the second source said.

It was not immediately clear if the “serious sexual violation” referred to sexual crimes like rape or prostitution, or if it also included sex between willing teenaged participants.

The second source also said that many believe that the increase in deviance was related to the postponement of the school year, as schools have not been in session since before the winter break due to the coronavirus.

“As students do not go to school and are staying at home, they naturally approach impure media with curiosity and share it with each other, so there is an increasing number of these [immoral sexual] behaviors.”

RFA reported in mid-May that a major crackdown on illegal smartphone content among the country’s youth has been underway since April, mostly geared at eliminating South Korean cultural influences spreading among North Korean youth.

Youth were made aware of the crackdown during meetings of the Kimilsungist-Kimjongilist Youth League and according to sources, pulled all-nighters desperately trying to delete the illegal content from their devices.

In that crackdown also, warnings were issued that parents and teachers would be punished if the youth were caught with the contraband media.

Reported by Myungchul Lee for RFA’s Korean Service. Translated by Leejin Jun. Written in English by Eugene Whong.



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Coronavirus Australia live news: NSW eases restrictions on weddings and funerals as Victorians ordered to continue working from home – latest updates

Well, they’re very appreciative, mate, of the 35 years. I mean, people who are listening to you over the last few years or longer than that. It’s an extraordinary career by any estimation. And beyond that, there’s a broader contribution to public life on so many issues, which your program this morning is rehearsing all of those.

But can I recall one on behalf of the grateful members of the Southern Districts Rugby Club. Back in 2007, I was running for parliament and that year the then-New South Wales rugby union was trying to boot Southern Districts out of the premiership, together with Penrith and who are sadly … sorry, not Penrith, Illawarra and Penrith. And you stood up with us and, I mean, you came out to the club and you’ve been to the club many times since then.

And Southern Districts has gone on from strength to strength since then and so I’m sure all of them would want me to pass on to you, mate, our thanks for that.

But there are so many stories like that everyone can tell. Some were at a big national global scale, but some of them are just saving a great footy club. So, mate, thanks very much, and Jenny and I want to wish you all the best for your future.

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Trump says right-wing voices are being censored. The data says something else

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But data from Facebook, the world’s largest social media company, pours cold water on the assertion that conservative voices are being silenced.

In fact, according to CrowdTangle, a data-analytics firm owned by Facebook, content from conservative news organizations dominates Facebook and often outperforms content from straightforward news organizations. 

Additionally, over the last month on Facebook, Trump has captured 91% of the total interactions on content posted by the US presidential candidates, according to CrowdTangle. Biden has captured only 9%.

CrowdTangle computes interactions by totaling the number of likes, comments, and shares a post receives. 

Over the last month, the top performing news organization in the US was Fox News, a conservative network which largely echoes the Trump White House’s messaging. 

Fox News captured 13% of all interactions among US news organizations with more than 29 million likes, comments, and shares, according to CrowdTangle.

The second top-performing page belonged to Breitbart, a right-wing website that is largely supportive of the President and has close ties to the White House. Its Facebook page accounted for 9% of the total US media interactions over the last month with more than 20 million likes, comments, and shares.

The third best performing US news organization was CNN, with 7% of the interactions; the fourth was ABC News with 5%; the fifth was NPR with 4%.

When sorting by US political media, the data skews largely in favor of conservative news organizations, according to CrowdTangle. Six of the top 10 US political media pages belonged to conservatives. 

Ben Shapiro, the prominent conservative news personality, generated more than 25 million interactions over the past month on his page, accounting for 29% of the total share from US political media on Facebook, according to CrowdTangle. 

The second top US political media page belonged to Breitbart, with 23% of total interactions. 

Other conservative outlets in the top 10 for US political media over the last month: The Western Journal in fifth with 4% of the total interactions; TheBlaze in seventh with 3% of the total interactions; IJR in eight with 2% of total interactions; and the Washington Examiner in ninth with 2% of interactions. 

Trump and Republican lawmakers have repeatedly accused Facebook and other social media platforms of bias, painting the companies as villains in a longstanding culture war used to excite the conservative base. 

Technology platforms, such as Facebook and Twitter, have banned certain users in the past for violating hate speech policies.

In a widely covered move, Facebook, YouTube, and Apple booted right-wing conspiracy theorist Alex Jones from their platforms in 2018 for violating hate speech and harassment policies. The companies maintained that they do not discriminate against users for their political beliefs. 

But the nuance has been lost on Trump, Republican leaders, and members of the conservative media.

Republicans and right-wing media outlets have been all too happy running with the narrative that social media companies are censoring conservatives, regardless of the facts. Fox News, Breitbart, and other outlets have amplified claims that conservatives are under fire on social media platforms. 

In addition to the president, House Minority Leader Kevin McCarthy, Texas Sen. Ted Cruz, and Donald Trump Jr. have been among some of the Republicans to promote this narrative.

Claims of social media bias and censorship have also made their way to Congress. Lawmakers have held hearings on the so-called practice of “social media filtering” where right-wing personalties have been asked to testify about the discrimination they’ve supposedly faced at the hands of the companies.

The narrative is unlikely to go away anytime soon. The politicians and media outlets on the right that push it do not seem moved by the facts. Instead, they seem more interested in a narrative that resonates with and whips up the conservative base.

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Twitter Users Offer Encouragement After Trump Riffs About Deleting Account

President Donald Trump claimed on Thursday that he’d love to delete his Twitter account ― and users on the platform were very supportive of that idea.

The comment came as Trump signed an executive order devised to reduce legal protections for social media companies. In a first earlier this week, Twitter had flagged two of the president’s tweets, which contained unsubstantiated claims about mail-in voting, with fact-check warnings.

Trump ― who generally uses the platform to bash his rivals, spread baseless theories and promote himself and his allies ― declared this move a suppression of free speech and made the apparent move to punish the company.

When a reporter asked why Trump doesn’t simply leave the platform he has so many issues with, he replied, “There’s nothing I’d rather do than get rid of my whole Twitter account.”

However, the president claimed, he keeps it so he can challenge news coverage he deems “fake.”

While many skeptics doubted Trump’s ability to part ways with his Twitter account, other users optimistically offered their full encouragement.



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Foster kids struggling during the pandemic are getting much needed support from a CNN Hero

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Some don’t have access to technology needed to continue distance learning. Those who’ve aged out of the system often don’t have a support network to fall back on — and they already face a higher risk of homelessness.

“For so many of us, the Covid-19 pandemic has created a lot of confusion and fear,” said Danielle Gletow, a 2013 CNN Hero. “But for those in foster care, and particularly those who aged out of foster care, this has been an exceptionally difficult time because a lot of their support systems have been removed.”

Gletow, a foster and adoptive mother, started the non-profit One Simple Wish in 2008. The organization grants wishes to children in foster care across the country and those who’ve aged out. Last year, the group reached 20,000 youth.

Each wish is posted online, and anyone can cover the cost to make that wish come true — from tangible items like a bicycle, a varsity jacket or school supplies, to an experience such as music lessons or a trip to the theater.

But when Covid-19 hit, Gletow knew this population would have much different needs.

“We immediately created a Covid-19 response fund and started focusing on the things that we knew our young people were going to need,” Gletow said.

The biggest request the organization has seen is for laptops and other technology for children’s remote learning. And often, these laptops are important for more than school.

“Kids were doing weekly visits with siblings and biological parents, but once the pandemic hit this was no longer possible,” Gletow said. “Now, the only way for them to do these things is virtually through tablets or laptops.”

For young adults who’ve aged out of foster care, job loss or furloughs can be devastating. And those in college no longer have the housing they relied on. So, Gletow’s non-profit is assisting former foster youth with rent and utility assistance, along with food and other essentials, during the pandemic.

One college senior in New Jersey is among them. Living with her eight siblings, they all help take care of each other.

“As one of the oldest in my family, I have many responsibilities such as helping provide food, money, time, and basically raising my younger siblings along with the help of my older siblings,” the student said.

With support from One Simple Wish, the family has been able to keep up with necessities such as food and gas.

“They’ve been providing us with ShopRite gift cards, Target gift cards, gas cards to help us pay for our groceries and everything,” she said. “It’s greatly appreciated.”

Former foster youth Amber Whitaker has also received support from the organization during Covid-19, including tuition assistance for her graduate degree.

“I really hope to be able to help children in a similar circumstance as to what I was brought up in,” Whitaker, 31, said. “And One Simple Wish helped to make that happen.”

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Gletow said her group has seen more than a 300% increase in needs coming from foster children and former foster youth during the pandemic and the organization is able to fill these needs very quickly without a lot of red tape.

“It’s important to us that nobody ever feels like they are not being seen or heard,” Gletow said. “We’re able to reach out to those cases that don’t necessarily perfectly fit into larger programming.”

Gletow wants to make sure this population knows they can come to her organization for assistance with anything and they will be met with zero judgment.

“We just want to make sure that everybody is safe and protected,” Gletow said, “and that everybody has a sense of support at a time when the whole world feels completely out of control.”

Want to get involved? Check out the One Simple Wish website and see how to help.

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